{"id":6585,"date":"2024-07-05T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-07-04T23:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/?p=6585"},"modified":"2024-07-02T15:09:47","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T05:39:47","slug":"forbidden-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/2024\/07\/05\/forbidden-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Forbidden Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"6585\" class=\"elementor elementor-6585\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1041661 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1041661\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1c06747\" data-id=\"1c06747\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c4231b5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c4231b5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p style=\"margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-size-adjust: 100%; color: rgb(117, 117, 117); font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">This is a topic I&#8217;ve researched over the years while writing&nbsp;<em>The Phoebe Braddock Books<\/em>; a series devoted to such relationships. There are several theories on the appeal of the forbidden such as:<\/p><ul style=\"color: rgb(117, 117, 117); font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><li style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\">Psychological Reactance: the&nbsp;way people rebel to being told what to do, think, or feel.<\/li><li style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\">Cognitive Dissonance: placing more value on something that takes more effort to achieve<\/li><li style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\">The &#8216;Forbidden Fruit&nbsp;Effect&#8217;: the way our brain fixates on something when we know we can&#8217;t have it.<\/li><\/ul><p style=\"margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-size-adjust: 100%; color: rgb(117, 117, 117); font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Here are some fascinating&nbsp;articles on the psychology of forbidden love:<\/p><ul style=\"color: rgb(117, 117, 117); font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><li style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/au\/blog\/dating-and-mating\/201707\/the-allure-forbidden-relationships\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%; color: rgb(0, 124, 137); font-weight: normal; text-decoration-line: underline;\">https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/au\/blog\/dating-and-mating\/201707\/the-allure-forbidden-relationships<\/a><\/li><li style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bodyandsoul.com.au\/sex-relationships\/relationships\/the-forbidden-fruit-effect-explains-why-you-fall-for-the-ones-you-cant-have\/news-story\/e108866400a59976e7ffd60df91f0649\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%; color: rgb(0, 124, 137); font-weight: normal; text-decoration-line: underline;\">https:\/\/www.bodyandsoul.com.au\/sex-relationships\/relationships\/the-forbidden-fruit-effect-explains-why-you-fall-for-the-ones-you-cant-have\/news-story\/e108866400a59976e7ffd60df91f0649<\/a><\/li><li style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.betterhelp.com\/advice\/love\/why-forbidden-love-is-often-the-most-tempting\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"text-size-adjust: 100%; color: rgb(0, 124, 137); font-weight: normal; text-decoration-line: underline;\">https:\/\/www.betterhelp.com\/advice\/love\/why-forbidden-love-is-often-the-most-tempting\/<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a topic I&#8217;ve researched over the years while writing&nbsp;The Phoebe Braddock Books; a series devoted to such relationships. There are several theories on the appeal of the forbidden &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/2024\/07\/05\/forbidden-relationships\/\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Forbidden Relationships<\/span> Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6586,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[97],"tags":[17,24],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6585"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6585"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6590,"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6585\/revisions\/6590"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6586"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/starlaarts.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}